About

Hi, I’m Alanna.

Former public school English teacher, author of Uninfluenceable, and a secular homeschooling mom of four. I write about what school has made normal for kids, and how to build something better at home.

Alanna Gallo standing outdoors in the sun, smiling

11 years

teaching in US public schools

2,000+

students, mostly ninth grade

M.Ed.

University of Southern California

4 kids

none of them ever in public school

9 countries

worldschooled over four years

1

The classroom

I taught middle and high school English in public schools for eleven years, mostly ninth grade, and somewhere past two thousand students I couldn’t pretend anymore that the problems were one-offs. I had honors kids, bright, high-achieving kids, who couldn’t remember their own project on the day it was due, because someone was always going to bring it in that morning.

Give them an assignment with no rubric and no model and they’d stare into space, and then every hand in the room would go up at once. “What do I do? Where are the directions?” And honestly, the best part of the job was closing my door and doing it differently anyway (Socratic discussions, projects built around what they actually cared about, big questions about human nature tied to the books). Some kids lit up. But I was doing it inside a system that pulled the other way every single day.

2

The moment I knew

My oldest was about to turn six and headed for kindergarten, and because he was several grade levels ahead in math, the plan was to put him on an iPad for enrichment. No way on this green earth.

I’d spent years watching what that kind of school day did to kids, and in all that time there were only a handful of students I’d looked at and thought, “I want my child to be like that”…which, if you sit with it for a second, is heartbreaking. So he never went. None of my four have been to public school. They went to Montessori preschool, and then we built something else.

Alanna reading with two of her children on a beanbag chair by a window

3

What our days look like now

We’re a secular homeschooling family, and we worldschool, which means we’ve lived and learned in nine countries over the past four years (full-time travel for a few years, part-time since). Academics take about two hours a day. The rest is reading, which my kids do for hours without being asked, outdoor play that would make some parents nervous, a micro school a few days a week, co-ops, and a lot of boredom, which I consider a feature. When they tell me they’re bored, my answer is always the same: “That’s great. Your boredom is not my problem.”

There’s ADHD and giftedness in our house, including mine (which I didn’t find out about until my forties), and a standard grade-level classroom was never going to fit kids who are years ahead in one subject and wired completely differently in another. That’s part of why we do this, too.

Alanna leaning against a full bookshelf
Alanna beside her daughter at a keyboard

4

Why I do this work

I believe in public education as an institution, and I think teachers are doing extraordinary work inside a system that isn’t serving most kids. I’m not interested in shaming anyone for where their kids go to school.

What I am interested in is telling parents the truth about what I saw, giving them language for what they’re already noticing at home, and showing them that a different kind of childhood is a lot more reachable than they’ve been told. That’s what the writing, the book and everything else here is for.

What I believe

The short version, in six lines.

Childhood isn’t a race.

Being years ahead doesn’t matter much if a kid has stopped caring about learning along the way.

Teachers aren’t the problem.

The design is. Most teachers are doing extraordinary work inside constraints they never chose.

Boredom is where it starts.

Creativity, play and independence all begin in the moments nobody filled for them.

It’s what the screen replaced.

The issue is rarely the device itself. It’s the reading, play and boredom it quietly displaced.

Confidence comes from competence.

Kids become capable by contributing real work, not by being managed or praised.

Secular and evidence-based.

Inclusive, research-informed, and written for families who don’t want a sermon with their curriculum.

The C.O.R.E. Lens

How I think about childhood.

Four conditions under one question: does this move us closer to the childhood we’re trying to create?

C

Curiosity

Children are born curious. Our job is to protect that, not replace it with performance.

O

Ownership

Kids become confident by contributing, not by being managed.

R

Rhythm

The pace of childhood shapes the quality of childhood.

E

Environment

Every environment teaches something. The question is what.

As featured in

What's Up Moms
Verywell Family
Mom.com
Parents
Scary Mommy

Beyond the blog

Other ways to find me.

The book

Uninfluenceable

A guide to raising confident kids in a trend-driven, social-media-fueled world.

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For brands

Ed-tech consulting

Helping children’s ed-tech and education companies design for real child development.

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Press

Podcasts & media

Talk topics, bios, headshots and booking for shows and publications.

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Where to next

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